If the past becomes a foreign country then you become a foreigner in your own lands.

Subverting and obfuscating reality for your own ease and comfort helps no one. And it helps the person doing it the least in the long term. Objective reality of people, places, and things as we see it matter over subjective feeling is relation to that reality.

There are so many important things we could be doing in the world instead of being stuck in th…